I've learned slow cooking from many people dear to my heart - some in far
away countries of my childhood and youth; and others close to my home in
America.
Nepal is
my ancestral home, but I was raised mostly in India. I am of Newari
descent, a race of people who were the original inhabitants of the
Kathmandu valley. Historians believe the Newars settled the
Kathmandu valley in the early 3rd or 4th century AD.
From my maternal grandmother’s mother I inherited Lepcha blood. Lepchas
were the original inhabitants of Sikkim. They are now a vanishing
tribe.
My childhood and young adult years were spent in a Catholic boarding
school, with my maternal grandmother (Aji) in her home near Darjeeling (of
Darjeeling-tea fame), with my grandfather (Assam-ko-Aja) and his household
in Assam and occasionally with my paternal grandmother in Rajbiraj, an
agrarian town on the borders of Nepal and India.
In boarding school, we were fed the usual boarding school fare of white
bread, mulligatawny soup, liver curry, and oh yes, some sort of fishy dish
on Fridays. To avoid the hot, muggy summers in Assam, my grandmother spent
her summers in her home near the school. When she was in town, she would
visit us on visiting-day every week, maid in tow carrying a basket of
homemade goodies. We sat in the parlour and ate to our hearts content;
pooris, pakoras, sandesh, aloo dum you name it.
My Aji’s father was an apothecary. She used to tell us stories of often
accompanying him on his trips to the mountain, on small ponies in Eastern
Nepal. She was very well versed in uses of herbs in both the culinary and
medicinal field.
Winter holidays in Assam, at my Aja’s were spent listening to his
collection of jazz records, and enjoying a cycle of scrumptious feasts and
picnics. He had a huge household staff and the kitchen did not close ‘til
past mid-night. Aja was an avid hunter. There was always game and the best
vegetables from one of the three “bagaans’ (farms.) He was quite the
anglophile so our tables were often laden with English fare. The best of
spirits flowed generously!!
When visiting my paternal very Newar grandmother in Rajbiraj, we lived
completely off the land. This was late 1940’s and 1950’s. Nepal was still
under a feudal system. For generations my family had contracted with
tenant farmers on a customary, and hereditary, basis. Wheeled vehicles
were few and far between. Bullock carts laden with produce and grains
arrived at the main house everyday. The grains were husked in the compound
by the kitchen and well. Surplus was stored in small granaries, in the
compound.
Compared to the exotic meals in Assam, what we ate in Rajbiraj, was simple
and wholesome. The Newari festivals and feasts however were indulgent
affairs, featuring a spicy assortment of fried, roasted, jellied and
curried meats, curried and pickled vegetables, various rice dishes, soups,
sweets and yoghurt. My grandmother made excellent home-made brew!
Rajbiraj Aji was also well versed in herbs and its uses. She used hers to make natural
cosmetics. Every evening Centaury was burned in a clay dish shaped like an
Aladdin lamp and the fumes were “waved” under all the beds to ward off
snakes. Aji also applied centaury herb juice to clear spots on the skin.
In High School, one of the subjects included in the curriculum was
Domestic Science (besides Mother-craft and Needlework. Honest!) It
entailed a weekly class of mastering the culinary arts and other domestic
matters. Meanwhile at home my mother said it was time to learn how to cook
like all proper young ladies should. To my mother’s despair, many a dish I
burned while stirring a pot of stew with my nose buried in a book. Thanks
to my mother’s admonishment, and my Aji’s gentle encouragement I did
manage to acquire rudimentary knowledge of the fine art of cooking.
My abilities were certainly tested when my future husband who was a Peace
Corps Volunteer invited his parents from Alaska to trek in Nepal. This was
1970. Mom (Dan’s Mother) and I probably started bonding when we spent many
an evening preparing and tending our stew over a camp fire ringed with
three rocks, the good old-fashioned Nepali mountain way.
Dan and I married on April’s Fools Day (Dan’s Birthday) in 1971. Our honey
moon was a veritable feast in more ways than not. Pindi Channa in a bus in
the Khyber Pass, Afghani roti on horseback in the mountains north of
Kabul, Turkish stew at a bus stop somewhere between Iran and Turkey,
Souvlakis in Athens, German stew in Heidelberg, warm beer in London. Then
by BOAC, Amtrak and a spanking new green 1971 Mercury Cougar (not ours; a
family friend’s, we were transporting to Alaska!) to our first home in a
logging camp in South East Alaska.
The logging camp ladies offered me tips on the old fashioned
long-simmering and stewing ways of cooking. The logging camp was on an
island. There was not much to do.
When we moved to town, I cooked many a pot of stew and chili while
building our A-frame on Douglas Island then later a cabin on a cove in
T-Harbor. We used our slow cooker and pressure cooker constantly. Dan was
especially good with the pressure cooker. I honed my cooking skills,
thanks to the tips from our chefs during the years we owned and operated a
Steak and Seafood Restaurant.
I learned many a way of healthy cooking from Dan’s Mother, when we moved
next door to his parents in the country in Washington State. We had a
prolific herb and vegetable garden, with “state-of-the-art” compost bin,
and a well equipped tool-shed. We worked in the city, but in spite of the
long commute, we preferred living in the country.
At that time Dan developed celiac (gluten intolerance.) So there I was
trying to learn gluten free baking with nary a book of recipes nor
websites to help me. While I spent my time struggling to bake gluten free,
I used my slow cookers to take care of most of our basic meals. Once again
just like in the days of my childhood and youth I was enjoying a rich
variety of food, slow cooked the old fashioned way, in the days before
modern, fast-cooking methods.
Here in the high altitude, dry climate of Colorado, I manage to coax some
herbs and vegetables in my containers and raised beds. I rely a lot on
dried herbs and herb and spice paste for my cooking. They work well in my
slow cooker recipes.
Every year when my sister Gangi comes to visit, we spend time exchanging
and experimenting with various recipes. We sort and resort our recipes
collected from our Aji’s, my mother, Mom, various friends and relatives,
from our travels, from boxes and newspaper cuttings from India, Nepal and
here. Sorting through the various recipes evoke memories of the many
family and friends, some who are still around but we rarely see and others
who are no more who inspired or taught us these recipes.
In my easy-slow-cooker-recipes site I put together some recipes I use
often. In time I will add more so do bookmark this site and keep coming
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Sincerely,